In our world – which is full of so much psycho-babble and spiritual what-nots – this is one question that always manages to rear its ugly head in the minds of people like me – especially when one is on a certain spiritual path. So I am going to venture out and pen down a few of my thoughts about this topic. And of course, I am going to take the help of some wonderful Tarot card imagery to do so… 🙂
In the world where we live – we need money to buy the things we need for our basic survival – such as food, clothing, shelter, Internet etc. We need to pay our bills and since the barter system has become obsolete, money is the best manner of purchasing what we want.
Since the need for having money has firmly been established as one of the essentials of living in today’s world, it is reasonable to want a certain amount of money in order to live.
However, what needs to be addressed is a situation when this desire becomes overwhelming enough for a person to be ruled by that desire. I have seen people become obsessive about the amount of money they earn, or spend, or don’t spend or even save! Really, how much money is too much money?
Economics tells me that ‘wants are unlimited’. In short, no amount of money is ever going to ‘feel’ enough. So let us look at what some of the cards in the Tarot deck have to say about money and wanting money…
The first picture from the Robin Wood deck shows a couple pulling at what seems like a treasure chest full of money. But both of them are pulling it in opposite directions. It seems as if they have found a way out of a dark place – but then the chest seems to be bound by chains and both of them are at cross-purposes. The next image from the Druidcraft deck shows a man locking away his money in a big chest. And the third image from the Universal Waite deck shows a man who is hugging his money to his chest – he also has a coin on his head and two coins each, below his feet.
All these images show the situation of what happens when you cross the invisible line between wanting money to buy you things that make you happy and wanting money because you never seem to have enough.
Well, to be honest, wanting to make money is not a bad thing. That is the bottom line. But then, wanting money above all else – well, that is a sure-fire way to take you down in that dark place (like in the Robin-Wood deck) where you are going crazy to take something but you are fighting your inner self and others to do so. It is also not a good thing to keep the money so close to your self that you cannot see, think or be anything beyond or without it (like in the Druidcraft and Universal Waite deck images).
The thing that we must understand is that money helps us buy the things we want or need, so that our lives can be better, and that we can live comfortably well. Saving money is not a bad deal either – because in that manner we ensure that we have something for that ‘rainy day’ or for our ‘old age’. But, at the end of the day, one must not get so carried away by it.
The way is not the destination. Money is the way to buy the things – money is most certainly not the aim of life. Money is used to buy things – don’t let money buy you!
So, to answer the question: wanting to make money is not ‘BAD’ – but thinking that money will solve all your problems, is most certainly an unwanted approach towards it.
Meanwhile, here are some interesting tidbits for you to chew on:
The Wikipedia Page on Money states:
Money is anything that is generally accepted as payment for goods and services and repayment of debts. The main uses of money are as a medium of exchange, a unit of account, and a store of value.
The article also goes on to state:
The word ‘money’ is believed to originate from a temple of Hera, located on Capitoline, one of Rome’s seven hills. In the ancient world, Hera was often associated with money. The temple of Juno Moneta at Rome was the place where the mint of Ancient Rome was located. “Juno” etymology may derives from the Etruscan goddess Uni_(mythology) (which means “the one”, “unique”, “unit”, “union”, “united”) and “Moneta” either from the Latin word “monere” (remind, warn, or instruct) or the Greek word “moneres” (alone, unique).
Interesting, isn’t it?
Hey Gauri,
I totally agree with you here! Some people are just ‘plain lucky’ and ‘have the midas touch’ where money is concerned. And I personally feel that such people are born with these things because then it becomes easier for them to give back to society…since they are not worried about money issues for their daily survival…
However, how many of such people realize that such is the case?
I leave you with these thoughts…
~ Madhavi
Nice work Madhavi and well laid out thoughts in this article too.
Here are some tangent thoughts.
Some people are just lucky or blessed or have past karmas that no matter what they do they seem to earn lots of money. So what should a person in that condition do? Stop earning? I would not say so because even though his/her purpose in life is not earning more money, due to their actions the money seems to be coming in no matter what. I would say they should invest it in charity.
I always believe in giving back something in return. The society which has enabled one to work, earn and prosper, oen should give something of what one earns back to that society, where it is needed without any vested interest.
In Hindu homes one is taught to make a offering to God of what food they prepare everyday and traditionally that food is supposed to be donated to someone needy (not observed anymore!) and not eaten in the household.
That is one teaching about giving back from what you have!
Hey Dhananjay!
Nice to hear from you after such a long time!!
Well, i will agree with you about the root cause being fear…and how we are conditioned to think about money since childhood…
But, I don’t think that one should say that it is ok to be poor or it is ok to suffer – the idea is to teach children to strive to go beyond the definitions – if you are poor, then you can strive to make your life better and if you are suffering, then you can find your way out of it.
We all get what we deserve in our Karma – but that does not mean that we have to become victims of it – rather it means to teach us how to find a way out of the trap of these Karmic things!
Abundance is good to have – but to achieve it, one must first have abundance in our hearts and minds and souls – else material abundance is of no value whatsoever….
Hi Madhavi,
Your site has changed quite a lot and become very very neat and attractive and professional. congrats.
Now about the making just enough money post above. I think people go for more and more money out of insecurity. A thought is firmly planted in the mind of people since childhood that if you dont earn more than you need today and secure your tomorrow, you are going to be in trouble. And nobody can predict how much money we are going to need “tomorrow”, for us and for our dependents.
So the root cause if fear. Every Indian middle class child hears this that if he doesnt study, he isnt going to get a good job and not going to get a good wife/husband and his/her life is going to be miserable. so he/she ends up learning out of fear and later earning out of fear.
its okay to be poor. its okay to suffer. nothing is permanent and there is nothing to fear. this acceptance needs to be percolated into children, which will create a better society tomorrow.
what say?